In business there are KPI's of Key Performance indicators. The complete definition is:
A key performance indicator (KPI) is a business metric used to evaluate factors that are crucial to the success of an organization. KPIs differ per organization; business KPIs may be net revenue or a customer loyalty metric, while government might consider unemployment rates.
From now on I am going to treat myself as a business. Establish KPI's focused on my success as Stephanie Sardi. Work on them step by step, the Kaizen way (activities that continuously improve all functions and involve all employees... ME). To achieve my KPI's I will work on small tasks towards my improvement as a human being , professional, friend, lover and daughter.
To achieve these I will Plan -> Do -> Check -> Act and when something went wrong I will ask myself the 5 why's to determine the root of the problem and solve it.